In a newspaper article published in March of 2013, Bruce Feiler reports many interesting findings surrounding children and their knowledge of their family history. After an explosive family argument, Feiler's father expressed his fear of his family falling apart. Feiler says that conversation with his dad left him wondering, "What is the secret sauce that holds a family together? What are the ingredients to make some families effective, resilient, and happy?" After researching these thoughts, Feiler reports, "The single most important thing you can do for your family may be the simplest of all: develop a strong family narrative."
Several studies performed by psychiatrists found that children who have a strong knowledge of their family stories are better able to handle challenges, maintain control of their lives, have faith in their family's success and function, moderate the effects of stress, have a higher self-esteem, and are more resilient. Feiler concludes that everyone should make an effort to share their treasured family stories with their children and grandchildren. He states, "That act alone may increase the odds that your family will thrive for many generations to come."
I am very grateful for the many records, journals, and stories that my family has shared with me. I believe that when we come to know our family and their experiences, that we can feel loved, comforted, and guided. As we share stories about our ancestors with our children and grandchildren, we will develop a greater appreciation for genealogy work.
http://www.nytimes.com/2013/03/17/fashion/the-family-stories-that-bind-us-this-life.html?pagewanted=1&_r=0
https://www.lds.org/callings/temple-and-family-history/sunday-lesson/stories-that-bind?lang=eng
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